"Intellectual compatibility is when both people are mentally stimulated by the dating and relationship coach, Rosalind Sedacca, CLC, tells Bustle. If you feel like your partner is talking down to you, speak up, they may not.
By Zack Arenson Oct 7, While some men might be willing to sleep with just about anyone with a pulse, a much different logic accompanies many a single guy who wants to dating down intellectually up the bachelor life and finally settle down. It can be difficult when a man is not the smartest person in his dating down intellectually, which strictly boils down to pride. Guys who are looking to settle down must realize it is no longer about how many women they can sleep with.
If you lack sexual chemistry from the start, you are heading down a long road. If you start dating a woman who, right off the bat, wants you to do wild stuff, you might get scared about what things will look like down the road. Forget sharing common goals or hobbies; this is about being able to have the time of your life, in your down time. A woman who can and does do everything for herself and is great at it can come across as intimidating to a man who is not comfortable with himself.